IPA: /ˈstændəʊfɪʃnəs/
KK: /ˈstændəˌfɪʃnəs/
The quality of being distant or unfriendly towards others, often avoiding social interactions.
Her standoffishness made it difficult for her to make new friends at school.
Standoffishness is formed from "stand off" (meaning to keep a distance) and the suffix "-ness" (meaning the state or quality of). The word describes the quality of being distant or aloof in social interactions.
Think of someone who prefers to 'stand off' from others, indicating a state of being distant or unfriendly.