Definition

A person with whom someone has a romantic relationship, often in secret or outside of marriage.

Example

He was her secret paramour, and they met in hidden places.

Conversation

Did you hear about Mark? He has a new paramour that he's been keeping secret.

Really? I didn't know he was seeing someone.

Yeah, apparently it's someone from his office, but it's all very hush-hush.

Wow, I wonder how long it'll take for everyone to find out.

Synonyms & Antonyms

Root Explanation

Paramour → It is formed from "para-" (meaning beside or alongside) and "amour" (from Old French, meaning love). The word "paramour" refers to a lover, especially one in a secret or illicit relationship, suggesting a love that exists alongside another relationship.

Memory Tip

Think of someone who loves 'beside' ('para-') another, which helps you remember that a 'paramour' is a secret lover.

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