Definition

To act in a way that satisfies the desires or weaknesses of others, often in a negative or exploitative manner.

Example

The politician was criticized for pandering to the crowd instead of addressing the real issues.

Tense Forms

Conversation

I really don't understand why some people pander to every trend.

Right? It's like they can't think for themselves anymore.

Exactly! I prefer to stick to what I genuinely like, not just what’s popular.

Same here! Authenticity is way more important than fitting in.

Synonyms & Antonyms

Definition

A person who helps others in romantic situations or takes advantage of their weaknesses for personal gain.

Example

He acted as a pander, trying to profit from their relationship troubles.

Conversation

Have you ever met someone who just acts like a total pander in relationships?

Yeah, it's frustrating how they only care about pleasing others instead of being genuine.

Exactly! It's like they exploit people's feelings for their own gain.

Root Explanation

Pander → It originates from the name 'Pandarus', a character in Geoffrey Chaucer's *Troilus and Criseyde*, who acted as a go-between for the lovers. The term evolved to mean someone who caters to the desires of others, often in a negative or exploitative way.

Memory Tip

Think of the character Pandarus who facilitated desires in a story, which helps you remember that to pander means to cater to someone's desires, often in a questionable manner.

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