IPA: /ˈmɪstrəs/
KK: /ˈmɪstrəs/
A woman who has control or authority over something, or a woman who is in a sexual relationship with a married man.
She was known as the mistress of the estate, managing everything with great skill.
Mistress → It is formed from "mister" (from Old French *maistre*, meaning master) and the suffix "-ess" (meaning a female). The word "mistress" originally referred to a woman who has control or authority, often in a domestic context, or a woman who is in a position of power or influence.
Think of a 'master' ('mister') who is a 'female' ('-ess') — that's how you remember that a mistress is a woman in a position of authority.