Definition

In a way that is intended to gain favor or approval from others, often by being overly flattering or agreeable.

Example

She smiled ingratiatingly at her boss, hoping to win a promotion.

Conversation

Did you notice how she spoke ingratiatingly to the boss today?

Yeah, it was a bit much, wasn’t it?

I wonder if she thinks it will actually help her get ahead.

Maybe, but it just came off as fake to me.

Synonyms & Antonyms

Root Explanation

Ingratiatingly → It is formed from "ingratiate" (from Latin "ingratiari", meaning to bring oneself into favor) and the adverbial suffix "-ly" (meaning in a manner of). The word "ingratiatingly" means in a manner that seeks to gain favor or approval.

Memory Tip

Think of someone trying to 'bring themselves into favor' — that's what ingratiatingly means, doing something in a way to please others.

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