Definition

In a way that does not fit well with the situation or surroundings, creating a sense of mismatch or inconsistency.

Example

The bright pink house stood incongruously among the traditional brick buildings.

Conversation

Did you notice how she wore that fancy dress to the barbecue?

Yeah, it felt a bit incongruously formal for the occasion.

I thought so too! Everyone else was in casual clothes.

Right? It was like she showed up to a gala instead of a backyard party.

Synonyms & Antonyms

Root Explanation

Incongruously → It is formed from "in-" (meaning not) and "congruere" (meaning to agree or to fit together) and the suffix "-ously" (meaning in a manner). The word describes something that does not fit together or is not in agreement, hence behaving in a way that is not suitable or appropriate.

Memory Tip

Think of something that is 'not fitting together' ('in-' means not, and 'congruere' means to agree). This helps you remember that 'incongruously' describes actions or situations that are out of place.

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