Definition

The quality or state of causing pain or distress to someone.

Example

The hurtfulness of his words made her cry.

Conversation

I really dislike the hurtfulness in some comments people make online.

I know what you mean; it can be really overwhelming sometimes.

It just makes me think about how kindness can go a long way instead.

Absolutely! A little compassion can really change someone's day.

Synonyms & Antonyms

Root Explanation

Hurtfulness → It is formed from "hurt" (from Old English *hyrtan*, meaning to injure or cause pain) and "-fulness" (meaning the state of being full of). The word "hurtfulness" refers to the state of being full of hurt or causing pain.

Memory Tip

Think of being 'full of hurt' — 'hurt' means to injure, and '-fulness' indicates a state. This helps you remember that hurtfulness is about causing pain.

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