Definition

A strong feeling of anger or dislike towards someone because of something they did in the past.

Example

She held a grudge against him for years after their argument.

Conversation

Do you think it's healthy to hold a grudge against someone?

I guess it depends on the situation, but it can weigh you down.

Yeah, I've had a few people in my life that I still hold a grudge against.

Maybe it's time to let it go; it might help you feel better.

Synonyms & Antonyms

Definition

To feel resentment or anger towards someone for something they have or have done, often leading to a desire to withhold something from them.

Example

She grudged him the praise he received for his work.

Tense Forms

Conversation

I can't believe she grudged me that compliment yesterday.

Seriously? That’s so petty of her.

I know, right? It’s like she can’t stand to admit I did well.

Root Explanation

Grudge originates from Middle English 'grucchen', meaning to murmur or complain, which is derived from Old French 'grugier', meaning to grumble. The word reflects a feeling of resentment or ill will towards someone.

Memory Tip

Think of someone who 'grumbles' ('grugier') about a past wrong, which helps you remember that a grudge is a lingering feeling of resentment.

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