Upper-Intermediate (B2)
IPA: //fɔːrˈbɛr//
KK: /fɔrˈbɛr/
Definition
To be patient or to refrain from doing something, especially when it is difficult to do so.
Example
She decided to forbear from arguing, even though she was upset.
Tense Forms
Past: forbore
Past Participle: forborne
Conversation

I really had to forbear when my coworker made that comment yesterday.

Yeah, that must have been tough to handle.

I just took a deep breath and tried to stay calm.

That's a good approach; sometimes it's best to just let things go.
Synonyms & Antonyms
Definition
A person from whom one is descended; an ancestor.
Example
My forbear was a pioneer who settled in this region many years ago.
Conversation

Did you know that my family has a long history of artists and musicians, including some notable forbear?

Really? That's fascinating!

Yeah, I love learning about my forbear and their contributions.
Definition
To refrain from doing something or to hold back from an action.
Example
She decided to forbear from commenting on the situation.
Tense Forms
Past: forbore
Past Participle: forborne
Conversation

I really wanted to respond to that message, but I decided to forbear for now.

That's probably wise; sometimes it’s better to wait.

Exactly! I just need to calm down and not react immediately.
Root Explanation
Forbear → It is formed from "for-" (meaning before or in front of) and "borean" (from Old English "beran", meaning to carry or to bear). The word means to carry oneself before or to refrain from doing something.
Memory Tip
Think of holding back or refraining from action, as 'for-' suggests being in front of or before, and 'beran' means to bear or carry.
Visually Confused Words
forebear
forkbeard
forecar
forearm
overbear
forswear
foreyear
foreyard