Definition

The act of giving excessive or insincere praise to someone, often to gain favor or influence.

Example

She used flattery to win over her boss and get a promotion.

Conversation

I appreciate all the flattery from our friends, but I wonder if they really mean it.

I think some of it is genuine, but a lot can be just for fun.

Yeah, I feel like sometimes it's just a way to make us feel good.

Exactly! But a little flattery never hurts, right?

Synonyms & Antonyms

Root Explanation

Flattery → It is formed from "flat" (from Old French *flatter*, meaning to stroke or caress) and the suffix "-ery" (indicating a state or condition). The word "flattery" refers to the state of giving excessive praise or compliments, often insincerely.

Memory Tip

Think of someone 'stroking' or 'caressing' ('flat') another's ego, which is why flattery means giving excessive praise.

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