IPA: /dɪˈsɜːrnɪŋli/
KK: /dɪˈsɜrnɪŋli/
In a way that shows good judgment or insight, especially in understanding or appreciating things.
She chose her friends discerningly, always looking for those who shared her values.
Discerningly → It is formed from "discerning" (from Latin "discernere", meaning to separate or distinguish) and the suffix "-ly" (meaning in a manner of). The word "discerningly" means in a manner that shows good judgment or insight, particularly in distinguishing between different things.
Think of someone who is able to 'distinguish' ('discernere') things clearly and acts 'in a manner' ('-ly') that reflects good judgment.