Definition

A way of showing respect or submission to someone else's opinions or wishes, often because of their higher status or age.

Example

In deference to her experience, the team decided to follow her suggestions.

Conversation

I really admire your deference when talking to our teachers.

Thanks! I think it's important to show respect to them.

Absolutely, it sets a good example for others too.

Exactly, and it helps create a positive atmosphere in class.

Synonyms & Antonyms

Root Explanation

Deference is formed from "de-" (meaning down or away) and "ferre" (meaning to carry or bear). The word conveys the idea of carrying oneself down in respect or submission to another's authority or opinion.

Memory Tip

Think of 'carrying down' ('de-') your own opinions to show respect for someone else's views — that's what deference means.

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