Definition

The quality or state of being protective or anxious about criticism, often leading to a defensive attitude.

Example

Her defensiveness made it difficult for her to accept feedback from her colleagues.

Conversation

I noticed you seemed a bit of defensiveness during the meeting yesterday.

Yeah, I guess I was just feeling a bit criticized.

It's okay to feel that way; we all have moments of defensiveness when we're under pressure.

Thanks for understanding! I’ll try to be more open next time.

Synonyms & Antonyms

Root Explanation

Defensiveness is formed from "defens-" (from Latin "defendere", meaning to ward off or protect) and "-iveness" (a suffix indicating a state or quality). The word describes the quality or state of being defensive, or the tendency to protect oneself from criticism or attack.

Memory Tip

Think of 'defending' ('defens-') yourself, which leads to the quality of being defensive.

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