Definition

Having power or influence over someone or something.

Example

She has a controlling personality that makes it hard for others to express their opinions.

Conversation

I feel like some people are too controlling in relationships.

Yeah, I agree! It can make things really unhealthy.

Exactly! It's important to have balance and trust.

For sure, a little freedom goes a long way.

Synonyms & Antonyms

Definition

To have power over something or someone, making decisions about how things happen or how people behave.

Example

She is controlling the project to ensure it stays on schedule.

Tense Forms

Conversation

I noticed you are really good at controlling your emotions during stressful situations.

Thanks! I try to stay calm and focused when things get tough.

That’s impressive; I struggle with controlling my reactions sometimes.

Root Explanation

Controlling → It is formed from "con-" (meaning together) and "trollare" (from Latin, meaning to roll or turn). The word describes the act of rolling or turning something together, implying the power to direct or manage.

Memory Tip

Think of 'together' ('con-') and 'turning' ('trollare') something — that's how controlling means to manage or direct something.

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