Definition

To feel or show sadness or sympathy for someone else's misfortune or suffering.

Example

After hearing about her friend's loss, she took a moment to commiserate with him.

Tense Forms

Conversation

I heard about your recent job loss; that must be tough.

Yeah, it really is hard to deal with.

If you need someone to talk to, I’m here to commiserate with you.

Thanks, I appreciate that. It helps to know I'm not alone.

Synonyms & Antonyms

Definition

To feel or show sadness or sympathy for someone else's misfortune.

Example

She went to commiserate with her friend after the loss of his pet.

Tense Forms

Conversation

I heard about your recent breakup; I really want to commiserate with you.

Thanks, I appreciate that. It’s been tough, but I'm managing.

It must be hard to deal with all those feelings.

Root Explanation

Commiserate is formed from "com-" (meaning together) and "miserari" (meaning to be miserable or to feel pity). The word describes the act of feeling or expressing sorrow together with someone else.

Memory Tip

Think of feeling sorrow 'together' ('com-') with someone who is 'miserable' ('miserari'). This helps you remember that commiserate means to share in someone's sadness.

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