Definition

Referring to something that is indirect or insincere, often used to describe a compliment that is actually an insult.

Example

She gave me a backhanded compliment about my outfit, saying it was nice for someone my age.

Conversation

I thought her comment was a bit backhanded during the meeting.

Yeah, it seemed like she was trying to be nice but didn't really succeed.

Exactly! It's frustrating when people give those kinds of compliments.

Totally, it makes you wonder what they really think.

Synonyms & Antonyms

Root Explanation

Backhanded → It is formed from "back" (meaning the rear or opposite side) and "handed" (from "hand", meaning the part of the body used for manipulation). The term "backhanded" refers to a manner of doing something with the back of the hand, often implying indirectness or insincerity in communication.

Memory Tip

Think of using the 'back' of your 'hand' to do something — this helps you remember that 'backhanded' often means doing something in an indirect or insincere way.

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