Definition

Having mixed feelings or contradictory ideas about something or someone.

Example

She felt ambivalent about moving to a new city, excited yet sad to leave her friends behind.

Conversation

I feel really ambivalent about going to that party this weekend.

Why's that? It sounds like it could be fun!

I know, but I also kind of want to stay home and relax.

Totally understandable! Sometimes it's hard to choose.

Synonyms & Antonyms

Root Explanation

Ambivalent → It is formed from "ambi-" (meaning both) and "valent" (from Latin "valere", meaning to be strong or to be worth). The word describes having mixed feelings or contradictory ideas about something, reflecting the strength of both sides of the emotion.

Memory Tip

Think of 'both' ('ambi-') feelings being 'strong' ('valere') at the same time — that's why ambivalent means having mixed feelings.

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