IPA: /æbˈstiːmiəsli/
KK: /æbˈstimiəsli/
In a way that shows self-control or moderation, especially when it comes to eating or drinking.
She abstemiously enjoyed her meal, taking only small portions.
Abstemiously is formed from "ab-" (meaning away from) and "temere" (meaning to indulge or to drink). The word describes a manner of living that is characterized by moderation or restraint, particularly in relation to food and drink.
Think of 'ab-' meaning 'away from' and 'temere' meaning 'to indulge' — this helps you remember that abstemiously means to live away from indulgence.